tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-2779287853088298189.post2735863451252183674..comments2023-10-29T03:21:02.475-05:00Comments on Singlutionary: The Singlution RenewedThe Singlutionaryhttp://www.blogger.com/profile/11199194725578216599noreply@blogger.comBlogger8125tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-2779287853088298189.post-37767478983851605412009-10-11T17:42:55.918-05:002009-10-11T17:42:55.918-05:00Oh my gosh! The three-month honeymoon period! Yo...Oh my gosh! The three-month honeymoon period! You've noticed it too! Not coincidentally, I've also noticed that three months is about the time it takes for a person's getting-to-know-you mask to come off. <br /><br />I'm reminded of studies about happiness and what Bella DePaulo wrote about how that applies to marriage. A big event like a wedding can cause a small blip in happiness, but within a few months, our happiness levels usually return to baseline. Sounds like that's what happened to you with the exception that you were starting life as a single person instead of half a married couple. Totally normal!Clever Elsiehttps://www.blogger.com/profile/16418117983991542947noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-2779287853088298189.post-62226453762233109002009-10-08T21:51:44.673-05:002009-10-08T21:51:44.673-05:00Hey everyone. I am glad to know that apparently ea...Hey everyone. I am glad to know that apparently eating cake all day is a normal human desire. I thought it was many a product of being brought up by a mom who worked part time at a candy shop and then working part time at a candy shop all through college. The candy was free. Groceries weren't. So to me, cake seems like a perfectly decent food. Until my pants don't fit.The Singlutionaryhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/11199194725578216599noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-2779287853088298189.post-46009695297569716592009-10-07T06:08:02.189-05:002009-10-07T06:08:02.189-05:00Eating cake all day is wrong? When did that happe...Eating cake all day is wrong? When did that happen? Why didn't I know? Do I have to eat other things than cake now?Welsh Girlhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/12892102110682697495noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-2779287853088298189.post-64332802619947552892009-10-06T10:51:18.806-05:002009-10-06T10:51:18.806-05:00Yay Singlutionary! I love your blog!Yay Singlutionary! I love your blog!Purple Turtlenoreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-2779287853088298189.post-67670327018308209722009-10-06T10:34:57.956-05:002009-10-06T10:34:57.956-05:00I think this is a common process for a lot of us w...I think this is a common process for a lot of us who consider ourselves 'happily single'. Won't it be a great day when *everyone* thinks being single is just as 'normal' as being coupled?Jennhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/06342077835649746639noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-2779287853088298189.post-29613929841882312202009-10-05T23:11:36.593-05:002009-10-05T23:11:36.593-05:00Good. I'm glad you're back and ready to ru...Good. I'm glad you're back and ready to rumble.Akirahhttp://www.quarterlifelady.comnoreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-2779287853088298189.post-47569452830324850232009-10-05T22:27:24.698-05:002009-10-05T22:27:24.698-05:00Wait, is there something wrong with eating cake al...Wait, is there something wrong with eating cake all day? :p<br /><br />What you said about adjustments is true. Though I've found it easy to adjust to having a boyfriend. I also generally have no problem with being single. <br />And I've moved to a different state before, about 2,000 miles from my home of 19 years. It was an insane experience, and took me a long time to adjust. Eventually it happened though. I gradually got more comfortable driving around and making friends. It was a great experience!Kellhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/06642269008284261746noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-2779287853088298189.post-74459091528713009472009-10-05T22:16:44.611-05:002009-10-05T22:16:44.611-05:00I love it. Whatever you choose to write about will...I love it. Whatever you choose to write about will be fabulous. You are a great writer.<br /><br /> I think the whole adjustment thing is so true. Once something is normal it's like 'what was the big deal?' This makes life nice we can adjust, become better, and overcome difficult things. And even when things seem to last forever, in the end you think 'that went by fast.' :)Stevihttps://www.blogger.com/profile/07902711072451099210noreply@blogger.com